Self Empowerment Blog: How to Make Your Dreams Come True

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There’s a lot of misunderstandings about dreams that can mess up your manifesting. Watch this video & get the divine download on how dreams really do come true. Choose self empowerment, choose self-love.

I have some questions for you love…

What is your Sacred Dream for the World?

What is your Sacred Dream for Yourself this year?

And are you going about dreaming in the ‘right’ way?

I used to think that dreams happened in the future, that I had to pursue them, manifest them, make them happen, or just get lucky. And that caused a lot of pressure, disappointment and frankly hard work.

There is SO much misunderstanding about how dreams really work — information telling you to make vision boards, to apply the Law of Attraction, to manifest your soul mate or more money in simple 7 steps, or whatever as if dreams are some magic trick that pop out of a hat. As if you just have the right thoughts and focus hard enough, you’ll get exactly what you want. And it just doesn’t work that way.

It’s not that the Law of Attraction, or vision boards or desiring a soul mate or money is incorrect, it’s the energy, the ego, and the attachment, and the partial truths and over-simplification that lead to misunderstandings that can lead you into a lot of disappointment, stress, and pressure around your dreams becoming your reality.

So when I thought about what I could share with you this week – as I myself dream and watch my sacred dream for the world and for myself come true – I knew I had to share 3 pieces of wisdom that can straighten out misunderstandings about dreams and manifesting … so the divine flow can move through you. Self empowerment is all about being the queen or king of your own domain, and being the monarch of your own dreams (with a divine partnership of course!)

With right understanding about sacred dreams, I’ve watched my dream to co-create a world rooted in self-love, where children and adults can always source love from inside themselves grow… from one party in a friend’s house in Chicago in 2006 to the international Self-Love Day – Feb 13th – which last year touched over 41 countries, tens of thousands of people with 800 people throwing self-love parties… a self-love concert we video-streamed around the world … and super-powered self-love retreats… all of which we will be occurring again this year (and you are invited!!!)

Watch this Love Letter video and clear the way for your sacred dream for the world and for yourself this year to come in. And then put Self Love Day on your calendar and choose how you will participate this year!

AND… I’d LOVE to witness YOUR SACRED DREAMS!
Post your Sacred Dream For the World and Your Sacred Dream for Yourself for this year, here and I’ll witness, bless it and send you divine love.

Here, I’ll start — ‘My sacred dream for the world is that we live in a world in which every child born is born connected to love and stays connected to love – never losing the thread of love or the feeling that they are loved.” “My sacred dream for myself in 2015 is that I live in a home that is a beautiful, spacious, love filled retreat home AND that I travel the world sharing the message of love and experiencing the love and beauty this world and its people have to offer.”

Okay, now your turn… post here now.

 

To deepen your self-love, make this the year, the year you love yourself more by joining me at the Love Club, where together we will grow a branch of self-love every month, all year long.

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  • Julia
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    My sacred dream for the world this year is that people, regardless of their age, status and religion will realize the healing power of meditation and step on the path towards enlightenment.

    My sacred dream for myself for the year of 2014 is that I will have a career, based on heart desires, which involves inspirational travelling, working less hours and earning twice as much I earn now.

    • Christine Arylo
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      Julia – your sacred dreams are beautiful and i feel your desire to serve the world to feel the light! and i invite you to on your dream to shift the word earning to receiving … no need to earn, tap into the feminine super power of receiving yoru great life as you give yoru great gifts. xoxo

  • Mary
    Reply

    I would like there to be peace in the world and for myself I would like more money to come into my life and travel to meet interesting people.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Mary i feel the beautiful seeds of your dreams. And i invite you to shift the word like to LOVE — pull it in lady with the power of love! fully. xo

  • Perla
    Reply

    My big dream for the world is to save Earth’s beauty and health. My big dream for myself is to feel secure and joyful-live from a place of joy and love instead of worry and fear.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Perla – yes to your sacred dream for beauty and health – and may that same beauty find you in your dream for yourself. with love.

  • sofia
    Reply

    i have a loving soulmate that i grow and play with!

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Sofia – witnessing your dreams and keep on the look out for mutliple soul mates to grow and play with. xo

  • Sarah S.
    Reply

    Big dream for the world: To see children nurtured with tenderness and infinitely valued.
    Big dream for myself: Live in more confidence regarding my skills, character, potential and desires.

  • Sarah S.
    Reply

    P.s. Christine, This message hit home today. Coming out of depletion and rebuilding my life. Manifesting can become like a manifesto (too much)! Loved the co-creation reminder. I’ll carry that with me this year.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Sarah – so glad the universe came through to deliver that message to you – yes to co creation!! xo

  • Ann
    Reply

    Aloha,
    My dream for the world is still “cooking”
    My dream for myself is….daily gratitude and appreciating and slowing down.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Ann – witnessed! To slowing down so you can appreciate the live you have now. with love. xo

  • Kendra
    Reply

    My big sacred dream for the world is that we develop better methods to heal (physically and mentally) those who have been severely injured or have intense disease processes occurring, enabling those whose lives haves been drastically changed to once again experience a high quality of life.
    My sacred dream for myself is that I am accepted into Stanford to finish my PhDs in Regenerative Medicine and Nursing, help to revolutionize the way we treat people in healthcare, and that I am finally content and settled in my life and where I am living. I am hopeful that the Stanford area will nurture my career development and my soul as I continue forward in my life, and that I will be able to make a positive impact on the world by being there.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Kendra – witnessing your sacred dreams of nurturance for the world and its people and the systems — and yourself. may it be so. xo

  • Kristine Carlson
    Reply

    Excellent! love your dream! Love your shirt, too! Who shops for you? Ha!

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      I have this very good friend who likes to play with fairy wands… has the best taste in love wear 🙂

  • gillian
    Reply

    Oh this is so well put, not chasing my dreams, living into them and being them, and recognize and nurture that dream, with the help of the divine! Not manpowering not manifesting rather cocreating…. yes yes and more yes:-) Open to receive. thank you!!!

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Gillian – your welcome love!! and feeling your passion to co create this year – may your dreams be motivated and inspired through love. xo

  • Catherine McAtier
    Reply

    My sacred dream for the world this year is that we all can accept appreciate and celebrate the idividuality of each other and in doing so reduce the everyday stress in the world. Letting our children enjoy being what they are – children. And for me it’s to create an abundance centre both actual and virtual where we can all embrace our creativity. Thanks for the words of wisxom. Cxxx

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Catherine – yes yes to your dream of acceptance and celebration of who we are – and yes to letting the kids be children – and to your sacred dream of creativity. Beautifull just like you! xo

  • Nancy Fithian
    Reply

    Christine, thanks for your wonderful post and video!

    My sacred dream for the world is that everyone acknowledges connection with all beings and the natural world.

    My sacred dream for myself this year is that I acknowledge Oneness daily and gain clarity on how I can help others reconnect with nature and themselves.

    • Christine Arylo
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      Nancy – you most welcome! and thank you for your sacred dreams of connection for yourself and the world. may they be so. xo

  • Grateful
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    This is such an important, true and essential message to kick off 2014! It blows out all the myths and misinterpretations circulating about the Law of Attraction.

    Our dreams – like the divine God – is not out there.
    It’s within us waiting to express itself through us just as we are.

    Thanks for sharing this essential fundamental message.

    • Christine Arylo
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      thank you for the encore and yes, our dreams like divine is not out there! big xoxo

  • Laura
    Reply

    My dream for myself is to allow for more self acceptance, self love, and to give myself the kindness and listening ear that I give to others. My dream is to trust in my own process and live in the moment rather than worrying about the moments ahead. My dream for the world is that we see ourselves in each other. And that we seek to improve each other’s worlds, so that we might improve our own.

    • Christine Arylo
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      Laura – your sacred dreams gave me chills – knowing and feeling your dream coming from your heart. may they be so. in love. xo

  • Abundantlee
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    My sacred dream for the world is that we learn to live in acceptance and celebration of our many, magnificent differences thus creating boundless amounts of LOVE for ALL.

    My sacred dream for my self in 2014 is to allow and joyously and gratefully receive my spiritual life partner. And so I AM and so IT IS!

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Abundant Lee – indeed it is so – to your sacred dreams blooming in 2014. xo

  • Melanie C
    Reply

    My big dream for the world is that babies born in industrialised countries have gentle births that empower mothers. If babies have well prepared gentle births then they are born with an intact ability to love and trust.Skin to skin contact immediately after birth, whether full-term or premature, and full breastfeeding all contributing to robust health mentally,physically,emotionally and spiritually.There will be no need to build self-esteem because it will have always flourished!
    My Big Dream for myself – To live from my heart and trust the Divine to guide my steps each moment. To fully realise that I am a Sovereign Being and responsible for everything that happens to me mentally,emotionally,physically and spiritually. To grasp every opportunity and be open and responsive in new ways that invite the other person. To invite new friends that I can have stimulating interactions with and a warm, caring,touching lover. To be able to be nurturing to the other and to myself. To live in a way that demonstrates what is possible in a loving,caring relationship with myself and others.

    May 2014 be a wonderful year for us all. May the truth be seen and brought to the light on so many topics in our culture.

    Love,
    Melanie

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Melanie – this and YOU are beautiful! i love your sacred dream for the world and i witness your sacred dream for yourself – so much connection to LOVE! xo

  • Eva
    Reply

    My dream for the world:

    I want peace in the world. No wars. No terrorism.

    My dream for myself:
    I want to become an adult and self confident woman, with a growing business that gives me enough money to have all my own expenses covered plus to be able to share a wealthy life with my husband.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Eva – thank you for your sacred dream for the world and i encourage you every day this year to begin seeing yoruslef as that confident woman by honoring the gifts that YOU have to give.xo

  • Benya
    Reply

    Thanks for your great tips about dreams! I was thinking today that I would like to get rid of the pressure of persuing my dreams.
    My dream for myself is to build up a life coach business and to finish writing my own album. For the world I wish that everyone puts the care of nature and animals first instead of egoistic interests, because this is the only way which can serve our true interests.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Beautiful Benya – and yes to taking the pressure off and motivating yoruself with love and inspiration seeing the seeds you plant growing naturally. xo

  • Krista
    Reply

    My big dream for myself this year is to learn to LET GO… of doubt, guilt, lies, excuses, expectations of others, and gossip. For me, this is the year of SUBTRACTION, taking away what is really not serving me in any way, in order to make room for what truly matters to me.

    My big dream for the world is that we can all learn to stop working against each other and start working WITH each other, and really learn to focus on what really matters (relationships, health, etc.) and stop wasting all of our energy on the things that really don’t matter (having the nicest house, working the most hours, making the most money, wearing the nicest clothes, etc.)

    Thank you Christine, for helping me to believe that it is possible to live your dreams. I also would love to travel the world, more than anything. I always have that itch in the back of my mind, to GET OUT THERE and experience the world.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Krista – i love feeling your passionate heart behind your dreams and love your power mantra. Yes to letting go and letting love in in all ways and i also witness your seed of a dream to travel the world and GET OUT THERE! the world needs your love. xoxo

  • Elisa Bes
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    My Big dream for the world is… Well… Same as yours, Christine ! I desire that we all atune and align with love. Teach it to our loved ones so they can grow with it, sow it everywhere we go, live it with our children and nephews and nieces, students, pupils, customers… I desire that everyone in the world meet the spark that will ignite their love potential.

    My dream for myself this year is to let myself be guided to co-create with the Divine so I can meet the right mentors, the right helpers, the right customers so that I can be a marvelous and helpful coach as I desire to be !

    With great fluffiness,

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Elisa – beam and being of love, so witnessing your sacred dream for yourself and knowing your act of service in service to the biggger dream will bring you all the support and tribe you are here to connect with. xxo

  • Jennifer
    Reply

    The Pictures behind you are exquisite, who did them? Oh yea, you are pretty special too!
    Jennifer

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Jennifer – thank you 🙂 and I’m not sure who did the art – came with the house 🙂 and yes, i love video taping in front of them. xoxo

  • Dr. Niama Williams
    Reply

    I love you, Christine, and all that you do!!! Brava, Queen of Self-Love!!!

    My dream for the world is that the shift in human consciousness that author John Edgar Wideman predicted in the early eighties come to full fruition and form. He felt that the next shift in our beings as humans was a shift in human consciousness, and with the rise in interest in items of the Spirit and with our beloved Marianne Williamson running for the Senate in California, that shift is on its way!!!

    My personal dream is that I will walk the path that God has laid before me of growing my intuitive counseling practice and launching my business and seeing it through to profitability. Profitability will lead to the launch of my non-profit and even more good for those who have survived trauma and those who love, support, and treat them.

    My dreams, our dreams–all good for the world!!!

    More power to you and your Love Ambassadors, Christine!!!!

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Dr. Niama – so love being connected with you and YES! to your sacred dreams being reality this year now – thank you for illustrating exactly what I spoke about, seeing the dream a true NOW! growing everyday in its strength and presence. xoxo

  • Margaret
    Reply

    What a wonderful message. It’s true, you have to love what you have before you can love what you don’t have. Thanks for the reminder. My dream this year is to stay in gratitude and know that I am a creation of love in this world. More important however, is to realize this when vibrationally things are not necessarily working out the way I think they should. The divine is God, without God we are nothing. Count on the Holy Spirit to carry you through. Thank you Christine!

  • Carol Spain-Falk
    Reply

    I love these videos you make. You are so easy to understand and impliment. I won’t mention my dreams because you have shown me how and what I am doing wrong. Thank you so much!

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Carol – BIG hug of love from me to you and knowing the divine wisdom showed up to help you align yourself the sacred dreams your heart came here to birth and receive. xoxo

  • Mariana
    Reply

    Dear Christine, thank you so much for the video!
    I dream the school system includes mindful practices, meditation and “how to love”lessons in an atmosphere of pure joy and recognition of the differences we all have…ohhh
    I dream the love and attraction I aways had from my partners throw the years, now grow in a sheared love and appreciated ever deepening conscious will to give and receive relationship…mmmm

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Mariana – your dreams are witnessed! thank you for being willing to dream these sacred dreams into reality every day! xox

  • Kim
    Reply

    Yes! I love this message and thank you for it! I was praying this morning to my unseen friends and guides, asking for help co-creating my wonderfully successful and prosperous coaching/teaching/speaking/facilitation/writing business of sharing tools, techniques, practices and messages that help people to live happier, more personally meaningful and rewarding lives. That’s my dream for my business and for the world (happier, fulfilled people!). I also dream of living in a lovely, bigger home later this year, of going on a family trip with the whole clan, and seeing my husband prosper and flourish in his life. I adore the message of “allow” and “co-create,” ‘cuz 2013 was a lot of labor and I’m needing a little rest and renewal right now, even as I’m launching a coaching practice. I therefore welcome divine partnership! Thanks so much for doin’ what you do, Christine! Blessings to all…

    • Christine Arylo
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      Kim – thank YOU for sharing your dreams. I can feel them flowing from your heart, where all dreams must start. with love. christine

  • Tammy
    Reply

    My dream for myself for 2014 is to thrive and live fully. I want to travel and meet people and be surrounded by beauty wherever I go. My dream is to find beauty inside me as well.
    My dream for the world is for people to truly see each other and value what each person has to offer. My dream is that they see how we are truly all connected and that we all want the same thing . . . to be loved, heard and feel valued.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Beautiful dreams Tammy and knowing they are unfolding into reality right now! xo

  • Deborah
    Reply

    I would like someone to call me friend….I moved and divorced and am alone now with little connecting me socially outside work.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      How about the year of Opening to Receive Love and connection?

  • Taylor - Marie
    Reply

    My sacred dream is that people follow their divine gifts, so they will bring them back to source and living from a place of peace, joy love and oneness. My personal dream is that I overcome all fear and deliver my poems so passionately that they enable others to open themselves to the power of consciousness which is the gateway for all personal transformations.

  • Mindy kittay
    Reply

    My sacred dream for the world is that everyone has access to education & lifelong learning. My sacred dream for myself is that I will become more self aware.

  • Rachel
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    Hi Christine,
    My dream for the world is that people learn how to slow down and be PRESENT more, look up from screens to notice each other, their own breath, the blue sky and smiling faces going by them.
    My sacred dream for myself is to give up scarcity stories about love and an amazing partner coming into my life…to instead choose to love and cherish ME every day, and TRUST the universe and life that I get to be on the party boat of my own life (with my friends, family, community, aka focus on abundance) and know that my amazing love is making his way to me. 🙂 Thank you for your wonderful videos, self-love party, presence and work in the world. xo

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Rachel – i witness your dream for yoruself and for the world – so beautiful – i can feel both from here. thank you for being a love ambassador in this world xo

  • Nadene
    Reply

    My dream for the world is for people of all races feel more love and less hatred towards each other.

    My dream for me is to find summer employment so i can work and live in Italy for the summer.
    It will feed my heart, my body and my soul. With the gorgeous art, handsome men and delicious cuisine. What a loving me combination!

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Nadene – got chills when i read your sacred dream for yoruself – and not just because Ive had this darn cold!! Because i feel the truth of YOU letting yoruself live the colorful life that is your nature. BIG YES to that sacred dream for you and for your beautiful one for the world xoxo

  • Trelle
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    My sacred dream for the world is to help children fall in love with Mother Earth and inspire them to take care of her through the reading of my childrens books.
    My sacred dream for myself is to speak my truth wholely and unapologetically, and To continue to love freely and passionately.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Trelle – witnessing your sacred dream for 2015 – seeing those books and your truth FREELY in the world. xox

  • Stephie
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    My dream for the world is that we wake up collectively and realize that we have the power to both heal our planet and to help take care of one another.
    My dream for myself is to launch my own business as a writer and artist.

    • Christine Arylo
      Reply

      Stephie – witnessing your dreams love – both just as you are beautiful! xo

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