Choose Relationships that Support You to Soar … that’s self-love!
A wise man once said to me, the relationships in your life can either be like wind beneath your wings supporting you to soar, or they can be like heavy weights that drag you down and keep you from flying free. I married that smart man – Noah Martin – and in the process have created not just a marriage that has supported me to do my great work and live my life’s dreams, but created an entire web of love that has allowed me to step forward past fear and uncertainty to go for my dreams full out! Now that is self-love.
Today, in honor of my marriage anniversary to said wise man (that’s he and I on our wedding day), I taped this divine spark from my heart to invite you to feel the gratitude for the love you have around you that supports you so well… and to also be honest about the ways in which you are blocking love from supporting you – through relationships that drain you or by letting fear keep your heart from reaching out and receiving the love you need to do your great work and live your great life.
Think of any dream you have and the reason you aren’t living it now. Somewhere in there will be a belief about how you can’t do it because you don’t have the $ money or the time. But if you wait for when you have the extra $ or time you think you need to live your dream, you will be too old to enjoy it! When you choose to grow your LOVE WEALTH – you will create around you the support, security and resources you need to live your dream now.
The only reason I could sell my house and my car, and become a spiritual gypsy, traveling around the world not knowing always where I would live or sleep was because of the massive LOVE WEALTH that surrounded me – in the form of soul family whose house I always had a place… in the form of ‘strangers’ that became new fast friends and miraculously had beautiful homes they needed watched or lived in… in the form of spiritual mentors who had done walkabouts before and lent their hand to me to help me steady in the moments I got scared… to the big hunk of man I married that helped keep me grounded and feeling safe as I slept in 20 different beds in two months this spring. Love wealth.
Now I offer you the choice to expand your love wealth and let it come in to support you and your dreams to FLY!
Watch the divine spark that I taped for you above and then tapping into all this love energy. I invite you to take the following action here on the self-love blog – Noah and i will witness your stand for love together and super charge your choice to let love support your dreams.
ONE: Feel the love wealth you have. “I feel so much love from…“
TWO: See where you are blocking love from coming in to support you to fly. “I am blocking love by…“
THREE: Open your heart and take one bold action to remove the block and let love flow in so you and your heart desire can soar. “I choose to open my heart to love by…“
Okay I will go first…
“I feel so much love from Noah, my spiritual mentors and my beloved soul sisters Anne, Shiloh and Christine and my goddess daughters Lucie and Janey who always meet me with love… I am blocking love by not reaching out to ‘celebrities’ who are also embracing the self love message so we can connect and power up self love even more – like Katie Perry, Elizabeth Gilbert, Indie Arie – because my Inner Mean Girl tells me I would be bugging them. I choose to open my heart to love, by reaching out to these three light beams and telling them how much I appreciate their work and also ask for their support in self love day and my new book – yikes!”
Now your turn to post here on the self love blog… One… you feel so much love from… Two… you are blocking love by…. Three… your bold action — open up to love baby and FLY! Noah and I are standing by to witness you and share our special love mojo with you 🙂
To learn more about choosing yourself first and finding a relationship that honors you to the core –
Read my book, Choosing Me Before We